It's sad that I've never heard a girl in my life say, "I love my cry-baby boyfriend" due to the misunderstanding of society today. Society denied severe social conditions like Aspergers which cause tremendous harm to one's social life and the ignorance of guys telling him to "Grow up" only hurts more.
So please girls, for the sake of human lives, date a cry-baby. If you call us pathetic, just remember the word "pathetic" comes from sympathetic which means you must feel sorry for us. It's a win-win for us.