Many men complaint about nice girls being with jerks. They claim they are good guys and don't understand why such lovely girls can end up with guys that treat them like an object. Well as already have being in that place, no one knows the reason.
But what I can tell you is what is so appealing about jerks-not that we know from the begining.
1- They're self confident.
They know they have the looks - if don't they don't care. Don't see they self as ugly or anything. They know how to take advantage of what they have.
2- They are misterious
They don't tell you from the begining all about them nor their feelings toward you. They keep it calm and play it 'cool'.
3- They aren't clingy.
They know the other part is crazy about them, so they don't seem desperate to get her attention.
4- They like adventure
Who doesn't like adventure at some point?
5- They can fool us to get to believe they actually are good guys.
They claim to be good guys. They sometimes treat us good, or make us feel good about ourselves.
But they aren't nice guys. We don't end up for enternity with them. We were fooled.
But not because we wanted. Just because we allow it. But that doesn't mean we are mean girls. Just that we don't have such a good eye to catch them from the begining. They sometimes even tell us they are good guys, and treat good to their relatives. So you fall for that trick. For although they can be good with almost everyone, they won't be nice to girls.
And I firmly believe that at some point girls got realize of that. The thing is that what is most attractive about a guy is self confidence. And if that comes with honesty, that is a gold mine.
So, is not that we don't like good guys. We do. Is just that we love guys who play it cool. And if that ends with the guy treating us good, we won't step back. I can guarantee you, at least nice girls, won't leave you.