For the record, the three of us attend school together so it's not like I caught him hanging out with her. I was just walking to my car when I glanced over and saw the two of them walking and talking, looking pretty chummy. As much as I hate to admit, I am the jealous type. But I pretended I didn't see, hoped he didn't see me, and kept walking. He and I haven't even been together for a month so it's not that my feelings are so strong it's just I'm afraid of looking like an idiot if he gets back with her. They were very serious, and she dumped him. As far as I knew, they were not on good terms. He never talks about her and his younger sister brought her up once at dinner and his mother said "we don't like her, so don't talk about her."
The reason I'm blowing this out of porportion is because this literally just happened to my best friend. She heard from other people that her boyfriend and her ex were on speaking terms again and then all the sudden the douche stopped talking to her and basically only offered an apology. When I told my boyfriend about this he was like "he's a jerk, its best to move on." So hopefully he meant that.
Should I ask him about this? Even though I might sound like a crazy person? Or just ignore it?
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dont worry so much about looking like an idiot if he gets back with her... and just because they are talking doesn't mean he has feelings for her. Dont ask him about it, but ask if he still feels anything at all for her; if you are going to ask him anything at all. I wouldn't worry about it though.1