Man -- I honestly hate being single and sometimes I do think I'll remain single for a long time. I wish guys approached me lol I do most of the work because I honestly WANT a relationship so I try to go out and find guys and it usually fails and the guys I do find they usually leave right away. It just sucks.
I want to date somebody. I want to kiss, cuddle, and do all that fun stuff. :\
Honestly.. Does anybody else feel like they wanna give up on dating due to crappy results or no results at all? Has anybody just felt like throwing in the towel and that they'll be alone for a long time? lol
Am I just pessimistic? XD
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We'll I don't date but we're in totally different frames of mind. I don't date because I enjoy being single and I haven't ran across a girl that I find engrossing enough to keep around and to be honest I run from girls like you. The reason why is girls like you tend to think that a relationship will make them happy so they're constantly thinking about maintaining the relationship. They rarely give a shit about the guys they're dating despite acting like it and tend to only care about the guy being there for them. Some even carry this mentality into marriage. Plenty of guys do this too. It's not that they're not wonderful girls it's just so difficult to please a girl who expects a relationship with me to make her happy. I can't make anyone happy but myself. Your mood is your choice and until that makes since it may be best to go solo. I'm certain you're a great girl and I'm sure your attractive but trust me dating is much better when you date someone because you want to know them better and not just to fulfill your relationship wants/needs.3