My friend, his ex girlfriend, his older brother and I have been hanging out a lot lately. His brother's been really sweet, but kinda shy, and it took a while before he decided to move his seat near mine and talk to me, when we first met. When we talk it's nice because even though he's shy, his eyes are always looking deeply into mine, and he doesn't mind being physically close to me. He laughs at my silly - sometimes stupid comments, and he's intelligent. I developed a crush on him and told my guy friend. Something tells me he spilled it to his bro, but I'm not sure. Anyways, since then we've hung out and it's been alright, but he's a lot more distant. I heard him talking to his sister's ex so comfortably, and he kept saying how much his brother still loved her and that; "Now I know what my brother means. Nice to know we have the same taste in women" Like, right in front of me! Tonight, my guy friend called another of his friends named Chrissy over for a visit, and when she came into the room it was like all of his brother's attention went to her! He smiled, she gave him her number, I think. Once again, with me sitting right there! Not a word to me the whole night! I don't want to be mean, but I'm a pretty good-looking girl, definitely more so than her. I'd like to say he flirted with her because she was nice and had personality, but she was vile and gave me terrible looks the whole night - even when I was trying to make conversation and be nice. At the end of the night, I tried to slip away and leave without seeing him but he caught me and gave me a hug goodbye. What the hell? I'm nice, pretty, and obviously like him! How could he flirt with his brother's ex, and friend in one night, but still be so awkward and distant to me? He seemed to like me before. Help?
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from what you told me this guy acts almost like me and let me tell you something trying to get his attention will be hard as hell. I think he just doesn't know what he wants in a girlfriend. choosing between you or his brother ex is difficult. when put in this situation I would spend days thinking about it without progressing into any relationship at all. I found that the only way to get thru to him is to be a blunt as possible. meaning you shouldn't wait for him to make a move instead you should try flirting more physical with him (EX. hugs, kissing on the cheek, ETC... ). and talk to him about why he hasn't asked you out on a date yet. when put on the spot he should make a decision. hopes that helps a little0