I've been dating a new guy for a few weeks I've known him about two years he's really nice and sweet and funny. He's pretty much everything I could ask for in a boyfriend. Things are good so far but it's just the beginning.
My ex boyfriend of 6 years has been talking to me trying to get me to break up with the new guy. Things were good but he changed near the end. He swears he can treat me right like he used to and wants me forever. I think he'll stop talking to me if I don't end things with the new guy today.
I'm confused with my feelings. I like both of them but obviously have way more history with my ex. I think I may just be in some fantasy world with my ex because we were high school sweethearts and that would be cool to last forever but I know that's not realistic. I also don't trust my ex the same. I don't want to lose him forever but I don't want to ruin things with the new guy because he's really done nothing wrong.
I know I need to make a decision because this situation isn't fair to either of them. PLEASE any advise will be greatly appreciated!!! Tell me if you have questions about it.
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You shouldn't go back to your ex. Your ex is probably just jealous of this new guy for egoistic reasons. He doesn't want you back because he loves you, he wants you to end it with this new guy, he wants you to prove that you still like him more than any other guy. He wants you to stroke his ego, nothing more. Also, trust is a huge thing in relationships. If you don't trust your ex fully, you simply shouldn't be with him. Period.
You need a fresh start. The new guy sounds better. Go with him. Your ex had his chance, but he didn't take it. I think that says a lot about him.0