They either lie or say they want fun nothing more. So just sex without anything more. Do they get a kick or buzz from it.
What fun is it with a girl you don't know or feel anything for? Must be something they enjoy I don't get it.
Sleeping with girls and then what lol? Most guys I meet want fun but say leading to more. Usually means just sex and then they might want more. If a guys 27 does he have commitment issues?
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This is something that you run into, in the real world and on dating sites. I've met plenty of women who are just looking for a good time. A roll in the hay, maybe a few of them, but they aren't looking for commitment. I dont do casual sex, and casual dating is ok. But its more like hanging out with friends, so I dont consider it really dating. Though I prefer to having meaningful relationships with people, not just something to waste time.
You have to be a bit cautious when dealing with people. I generally like to give people enough rope to hang themselves with or draw water from a well. Depends on what they want to do with the rope. If people lie those lies come out soon enough. Just be patient. This is not a phenomenon that is only found in men so I can understand your frustration, however a bit of patience and you will see what you need to.
If someone comes off all super intense and super into you, make sure that you keep things at a pace you are comfortable with. The last couple of people I've gone out with were trying to take the express lane to the bed room. I wouldn't go, they didn't take it well.
I have to wonder exactly why so many people think sex is a leisure time activity when it isn't. Watching tv, movies, playing cards, or reading, those are leisure time activities, sex is not, though thats my thought on it. Just keep what you want in mind when you deal with these guys, and keep the pace you want. Make sure you communicate with them, and make sure you pay attention what is said and what they are doing. If someone is playing a game, or lying, time will show you that.2
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