I recently made a boyfriend but yesterday he told me that he went to surprise his friend at her shop to pick her up and had dinner with her. He said that it is because she lives on the way to his house, as he drives a car and the train she catches had track work. I don't catch trains much so I assume that it'll take longer for her to get home? But he also didn't want to have dinner by himself.
Anyway, I felt upset about that and told him that it sounded like he went on a date with her, though he said that I am the only girl in his heart.
Would this be considered cheating if he does it again? Spending time with a girl one on one? He told me about it though and apologised but I am worried that he will do it again. He is a really nice person and is generous to everyone.
But I don't think he understands how much that hurt me and I don't think he is doing it with bad intentions.
Am I selfish in thinking this way?
Thank you for reading.
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Maybe I'm an insensitve douche, but I honestly would not see anything wrong here. I'll have lunch and dinner with friends if I feel like it, be they male or female. Personaly I'd invite my girlfriend along if I think she whould enjoy the company but as long as he told you I'd think nothing of it. If he didn't tell you or tried to hide it is when you should be getting worried.0