How do you know if a man really likes you or he's just trying to sleep with you? Iv been so confused about this man I push him away a lot because sometimes I feel like he just wants one thing from me. He does put up with that thou and every time we stop talking I'll text him a few months or weeks days latter and he always comes back and talks to me. We live in different states the reason I feel that way is because he has no problem talking about how bad he wants to sleep with me. I can't help but think is that all? He has also gotten mad at me to the point where he blocks my number then will unblock me a week later lol. So what is it?
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(Virtually) all guys want sex, regardless of whether they like you/want a relationship with you or if they're just looking for sex. You can't judge anything by the fact that a guy is anxious for sex.
Instead, you have to look at his OTHER behavior around you. If there isn't any other behavior (besides sexual stuff), then he likely only wants sex from you. If there IS other stuff, then you have to think about how he treats you, if you enjoy talking with each other, if you are COMPATIBLE with each other, and how he acts around you.
Right now, being that you are in different states, in my opinion, you are not compatible with each other. You couldn't have a real relationship because you live far apart, and you'd rarely see each other. There's really not much point in starting a relationship that way unless one of you is planning to move to where the other lives in the near future. I strongly recommend against long-distance relationships.
in my opinion, that's a bigger deal than whether he just wants sex or not.0