Girls: Is a month of dating too soon to be "official"
- Yes a month is too soon to be official29% (47)24% (20)27% (67)Vote
- No a month is not too soon to be official71% (115)76% (62)73% (177)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
I dont think this decision is about time. its about relationship preference. some people lik to be single, others like to be in a relationship. some people hold out the exclusivity card to control the other person into doing what they want.
im not into trials or being tested so casual dating doesn't appeal to me. (i e. not together but mess around. im ok being friends fits. but thats totally different)
you are not going to learn things bout a person you're dating casually, that you learn when you are in an exclusive relationship.
taking longer so you learn things 'you need to know in order to know if you want to be in a relationship', that you will not learn until you actually get into a relationship- doesn't really make sense.
i think it just depends on whether you want an exclusive relationship or not. if you do it can happen after the first date. if you dont you can date for years know all their secrets and still not want to be exclusive.
i dont really see what there is to learn before hand. w/e there is to learn, you'll learn it by being together. if you like each other and you are both interested in having a gf bf then i dont see the issue.
if you just want casual dating then do that.
if you want a relationship do that.
If it doesn't work and can not work-break up.1