Like it is carved in stone that every girl must have a boyfriend? Like I do not even make inappropriate comments or hit on/flirt them so what the fuck gives? People are like you are so pretty why are you always single or why don't you have a man? Ummmmm because no one wants me so I might as be a lesbo.(I was bisexual) I am NOT ATTRACTED to men sexually at all. The closet thing to any relationship I get is a fling here and there or some loser wanting me for a one night thing I hate men anyways all they do is take advantage of my niceness, lead me on, use me for sex all whilst their pathetic ass has a girlfriend! And if I went to the bar and a disgusting ass man touches me and makes a pass at me even after I say I am a lesbian I am getting them charged with sexual assault. I don't give a fuck it has happened before but I said nothing now that I am getting a backbone I will instead of using violence.
Why do people assume ESPECIALLY GIRLS that I am a lesbian?
What Guys Said 8
well for starters that attitude you are expressing right there in your post is why people think you are a lesbian. and then there is the fact that you tell guys you are one when they try to approach you. it also seems you are only attracted to assholes. start by losing the attitude , not going to bars so often and just casting a wider net , you will find a guy worthy of you3
Why do people think (assume) you are a lesbian? Let me see... (Taken from your post)
1. You were bisexual. It means you have had sex with, or were attracted sexually to other women.
2. You hate men.
3. You feel as if all men who hit on you are disgusting and should be charged with sexual assault.
Oh sorry I wouldn't have told you you were hot if it made you feel uncomfortable I didn't know you were lesbian. But I am a nice person I have never had a gf I don't think I am mean and I have never taken advantage of women either if anything they have taken advantage of me.0
Stop waiting, start doing. That is the key to all your problems, and stop calling lonely men losers.0
What Girls Said 5
Don't follow the crowd! DO YOU! :)
If clubs and bars isn't your thing don't worry about it! Find new friends that are into the same stuff as you. Do what makes you happy and do you! :)1
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