Alright, so this girl and I dated for a few months- just going out on dates. Told her how I felt about her, and we continued spending time together. Never made a move because I was so anxious to and she lost interest. At the end of the day, she just did not feel the same way and told me she doesn't want to lead me on, she just doesn't see our relationship progressing past friends and not to please not wait for her to change her mind about dating- told me previously her parents would not appreciate her being in a relationship and to focus on her grades. That's fine. I told her I really appreciated the honesty she gave me and she's the 'best for it' since I've heard stories of how girls lead guys on and all that.
Anyway, She's a really nice girl, at the beginning sex was not on my mind- not really while I was seeing her- so I'm totally fine with being friends with her. The question I have is, she's friends with a girl or two I might be interested in, is it open to ask her to maybe 'put in a good word for me' to them or something to that extent? Is that a normal thing to ask a girl? Not planning to do this until at least next semester, but it's been on my mind.
She was the first girl I've dated and I've learned a lot moving forward and changing myself as a person- becoming more assertive and so on which is awesome.
Thanks for your answers.
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NOOO! Do not ask her to put u on to one of her friends. Although you two came to mutual grounds and discarded the relationship, it is still rude and very tacky to ask her to put in a word for you. If she decided to and her friend takes an interest that breaking Girl Code. Girls should not date an ex. That's Rule #1, and if you ask her to do that, she might do it to show that she's over you, but I can guarantee you'll lose her as a friend. If the friend likes you, let her come on to you and you let the situation play out, but you have to consider your ex feelings because she's your friend now.0