Found this guy online, went on a date with him but I didn't expect much until the moment we met. Right away, we hit off, talked non stop. There were silences sometimes, but they were comfortable. To be honest, I've never felt that comfortable with anyone! And I go on a lot of dates.
So we hooked up... I surprisingly stayed till later that noon because I always sneak off before they wake up. Afterwards, he flirted with me through texts until a couple days later when it stopped. I was hurt when he stopped texting me. Then today (just 2 days later), I think I saw him at a restaurant... I didn't really see his face, but I just left. I was actually on a date with another guy at the time, but still, I was really affected. Now I can't stop thinking whether or not it was really him. But what he wore was exactly what he would wear. And we were in the city he lives in :/
I NEED TO GET OVER THIS! I hate sounding so pathetic, but I feel like dating more guys would make it worse. I've never fallen like this ever! And it was only one night!
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This isn't love that you're experiencing, this is just lust because you met an attractive man and you like him. I wouldn't say that you have fallen because to reach a point when you're ready to take a leap of faith takes a lot of time. You will get over this in a coupe of weeks, give or take, because what you two had isn't that serious. I understand that he not calling you would make you upset, but if he wants to give u the cold shoulder then I can say that he was not feeling you anyway because a man know exactly hat he wants and he would try to pursue the relationship.
Going on a lot of dates will just make it worse. You have to take this time and get to know your self. Keep your self occupied until the feeling goes away. Trust me, you'll move on in a week.1
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