I'm 21 and I've only had one serious relationship a few years ago that ended pretty badly, with me finding out I had been cheated on. I've been on a few 'dates' before and since then but generally I think they weren't interested in a relationship, they just wanted to get in my pants.
I've had people say that I'm pretty or that I have nice eyes, but those comments are usually from women. I really never hear anything positive from men, plus I'm shy so it's hard to put myself out there anyway. Generally guys never approach me. There have been times recently when I thought someone was interested in me, but he never made a move to ask me out, so I'd just as soon assume I interpreted it wrong.
So am I just to assume that I'm ugly and undesirable? If I was even attractive at all I'd think that men would be approaching me more.
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Lots of folks here will post a link to a picture and get a fairly honest appraisal. Don't trust any one opinion though, because some people can be mean.
When you say "attractive" I think you're using it to describe physical traits.
There's a hell of a lot more to attractiveness than just that. Sure guys can be shallow visually oriented horn dogs, but that's not all we are. I need to know a lot more about a girl than what she looks like before I know if I'm attracted to her. There are lots of physically pretty girls that I want nothing to do with.0