OK so people constantly talk about having "standards" in dating. What are your standards based on? Name specific things and how heavily they impact your dating decisions.
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A lot of factors that don't all necessarily have to be present. The biggest ones being a guy who is faithful, honest and trustworthy. Anything less than that would be a guy "below" my standards. Being attractive to me and treating me well are also biggies and pretty non-negotiable.
Other standards (FOR ME) that *don't* all necessarily have to be present: Has goals and ambitions, legally employed, no children, non-drug user/non-alcoholic, and not a previous or current womanizer.
Like I said, the top things are extremely important and impact my dating decisions heavily. The bottom things are important, but I could deal with one or two not being present. If a guy had all of those things or most of them, I would hesitate to be involve because it's so opposite of my lifestyle.0