How do you guys feel? Do you think we are desperate? Would you say no if you didn't like the girl or would you do it to be polite but ignore her?
How do guys feel/what's going through their mind when a girl asks for their number?
What Guys Said 10
Most of the times, I would be impressed. It'd also give me an ego boost knowing that a girl made the effort to get my number rather than vice versa.
I will only think you're desperate if you act desperate. You asking for my number has no effect on how I already perceive you to be though.
I have never denied anybody my number or given out a fake number. You would have to be incredibly annoying or a complete bitch for me not to give you my number.0
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Usually surprise. First time I got asked out by a woman, it was a 29 year old woman, and I was 19 in college. I was a little stunned, not only because I was much more naive, but because I flat out didn't look at her that way.
And yes, girls sometimes forget--even if you gut it up and ask a guy out, he might still say no. We're not horny dogs that want to hump everything that moves. You've got a 50/50 just like we do when we ask girls out.
But there's nothing desperate about a girl asking a guy out or asking for his number, etc. It is fine, and I've felt more respect for the various girls that have done so with me.
But again, remember, the rules still apply. Like, a girl called me up out of the blue at the end of a college semester and did the "I'm asking you out but not officially" thing. It was flattering. But I hadn't asked her out previously when she flat out told me playfully, "I'd totally say yes if you asked me out" so why would I change my mind?0
I'd feel flattered for sure. I wouldn't think she would be desperate unless she acted like it while trying to get my number. I would give it to her if she asked for it.. I would only ignore her or don't text if i wasn't interested in her.0
I wouldn't think you were desperate. I'd be shocked.
I'd probably say yes no matter what since it happens to ridiculously infrequently.0
I'd be so surprised I would think it's a prank or something.0
I'm wondering if she likes me. I'm probably not going to worry about it so much from now on.0
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