I'll send out like 20 emails and usually i'll get 2 or 3 responses sometimes more. The problem is we only message each other maybe a couple times then I don't hear from the girl ever again. I got one girls number then called and she didn't answer and never called back even though I left a voicemail. Another one was on a dating app and we talked for about a week and finally decided to mention that we should meetup and so she said ok and I told her we could go bowling. She said that sounds cool so I found a place that we could meetup at and I messaged her the name, location and time to meetup to see if that works for her and I never heard from her again. at least I thought it was my looks by now that at least I have girls actually responding I think it's just the fact that they have so many options as far as all the guys constantly messenging them so they can be so picky all the time. Makes me wonder if I would ever be successful at finding a girlfriend. What are the chances of me being the one that she actually wants to start a relationship with when she has 200 other guys who want to date her also?
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I've dated a ton with girls off the internet in person. The key is to not waste time talking to the attention whores. Unfortunately they make up like 80% of the profiles within online dating. Once you mention meeting in person they freak out and stop replying. We even got girls admitting on there that they just go online for attention. They want an inbox full of "you're pretty"'s and stuff to feel good about themselves.
Overall good ideas for online dating if you're interested.
Have a decent (not too short/not too long) profile with decent photos.
Message back and forth no more than 5 times per person. If they don't agree to exchange numbers and/or meet up, drop them. They're worthless to talk to and just want to use you for an ego boost.
If you got one girl's number, get more numbers! Having 3-5 girls' numbers is ideal. More may possibly help. Don't stop getting numbers until you're dating one for a few times and know she's a good catch.0