My bf over a year now has mentioned to me twice something about having his babies once when we were 6 or 7 months into talking he said that my breast were going to be for his babies but I ignored him because at the time we werent stable with each other and now that 6 or 7 months has turned into a year and a month with us he mentioned it again
We were leaving out of my house to go and buy some groceries and I had mentioned to him that he wouldn't have to worry about me trying to use condoms that he had came into to try and get myself pregnant because he tends to take his condoms from my place instead of just throwing then in my trash and I think its crazy but anyways I told him I didn't want to have his babies of course I said it because I dont want to pressure him in anyway plus just in case he felt differently
Anyways I also said "besides I already know you dont want me to have your babies" and then he said "not yet" and I go"not yet?" As in whatr you talking about! And then he changed it to " well idk" and that was it
Should I take him serious? I actually do want to have his babies but he doesn't know that at all should I bring it up to him again and tell him? Should I be taking him serious? I mean what guy would comment something like that if he didn't want to go that far with me right?
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That sounds about right. My girlfriend and I started talking about kids around 4 or 5 months into our relationship, it is better to know what the others think of it just in case something happens but it doesn't mean rush into anything.
first thing first you guys must communicate. If something is on your mind ask him. Let him know what bothers you and makes you happy. If you do want his babies; as you so amazingly said. Tell him! Let him know you do see a future with him after a year and a month is not a bad time to start thinking about things.