Most guys are pretty eager early in the relationship to "get the ball rolling". Are there any guys out there that still enjoy courting the girl? Guys that want to date the girl slowly and take the relationship slowly? How do you know if a guy is like this? Any input is great.
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I never understood how people can engage in the most intimate act imaginable with someone they've barely known (four dates isn't enough time to really know someone, in my opinion).
How to know if other guys think like me?
I like to read and think a lot, and I'm not very impulsive. I often say I'm like one of the Ents from the Lord of the Rings. If I were to consider having sex with someone, I would have to weigh all the pros and cons, and think about it, and weigh them some more, etc.
Find a career oriented guy. I think career oriented guys are long term planners, so they're less apt to be searching for instant gratification.
You're more likely to meet these kinds of guys at a college or university than you are at the club.0