I've been talking to this guy on/off for about a year now through Skype/messages. The only thing is he lives in the UK and I live in the US. The good news is he is moving soon to the US through his job. The bad news is he is moving no where close to where I live because the open locations for his job transfer are not available near me.
Well, he messaged me today asking where I would live (within the states) if I had a choice and if I could recommend any places since he is only familiar with certain places in the US. I replied to him saying that it all depended on what he was looking for in a city, and I made it clear that I like the region of America that I am in.
I wouldn't have thought much about the message if it had not been for around 6 months ago, I sent him a letter expressing how I felt about him and wish it could work. The distance just was a huge factor at the time. I never heard back from him til now. I'm just tired of avoiding the subject and want to know if I'm a factor of why he is moving or not and if he wants to start something with me. Does anyone have any tips on how I can go about this without seeming crazy?
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Move on. You are headed in a dangerous place. Don't give this guy more value than he is willing to give you. I know that this isn't what you'd like for people to say to you...0