I've been dating someone for 4 months and he's probably one of the best people I've ever met. My problem mostly is that he's from the UK , I'm from the us.
I've grown up where that's just wrong and you shouldn't meet up with people from online , let alone date them so sometimes I'm still iffy in the situation. I don't want to feel like I'm a disappointment to him when he meets me in real life and of course there's that fear of being catfished. Plus , there's this feeling that I'm holding him back in certain ways which I really don't like. Are these normal fears? Do you think maybe I should try to take it back down to friendship and wait to see if he still wants me before dating again? I know its going to be at least September before either of us can visit the other. That seems like a long time to have said fears and I'm sort of confused.
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To avoid being catfished all you need to do is have face to face Skype time - at least then you know he's real!
I've met someone online before. It was long distance as well, but we met in person after a long time. We dated for a few months.
Honestly, I was disappointed. It took me a long time to admit it because he was such a great person, but I just wasn't attracted to him. I didn't feel any chemistry with him and we never should have been anything beyond friends.0