My boyfriend texts other girls and I will admit it bothers me a little but I know I can get over it. But in this case, he is texting a girl whom he was in a past relationship with. In the beginning of our relationship about 7 months ago, I asked him about his exes and he said that they agree that they are not meant to be together because they are more like friends or family even. I read his messages occasionally and yesterday I found a message that stated "HI cutie" and it completely p*ssed me off. I confronted him about it and he said he sent it to her because he thought she would appreciate it unlike me. I told him he had no idea what that would mean to me.. etc.. and he said he never cheated, never will, etc... I know he is not the cheating kind but I also don't think what he is doing is right. But I just wanted some advice on it cause maybe I am over reacting. this is the first time I remember him doing anything like this to her. He says I am too clingy but it is hard not to be when you live with the guy. What should I do to stop be clingy? or Is this relationship not worth it? I am so lost, sorry!
Is he going to cheat or just being friendly? Very important, Sorry!
What Guys Said 1
If he's dating you, he should no longer be involved with his ex's period. Maybe as a simple friend, but if he's sending them text's that are clearly flirting, then he's basically showing a lack of respect to you and the relationship itself. He also knows this bothers you, yet he still does it.0
What Girls Said 1
He might be overly friendly. Or he gets a thrill out of talking to other girls. He has his reasons for being with you and not the other girl. Letting him have a boys night would surly give him the fealing of not being traped. While he has his boys night have a girls night that way you get out too, and your not thinking about what he is doing the whole time. But in any case he shouldn't be texting his ex like that. Confront him again and be straightforward. Tell him you don't like it at all and it bothers you alot. Tell him exactly what LittleTad said. That he is not respecting you or the relationship. Remember to be direct and firm show him you are being serious.0
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