My bf and i were getting into bed. He said let's do it and I said no. Then he said come on your my slave my little sex slave. I got mad and said that was kinda mean. And he said he was just kidding. Should I take that offensive or what did he mean exactly by that?
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It sounds to me like he is more of a dominant type of guy and he was simply exerting that dominance by calling you his sex slave.
I highly, highly doubt he meant it in a way that he thought would be offensive to you. My guess is that he probably thought you'd like it and that it might turn you on, even.
Nobody can tell YOU how to feel about it, but I can tell you that a man who loves his woman can absolutely be dominant with her, and in many cases, it can even be a greater expression of real, actual love. It might seem counter intuitive, but I guarantee you that the two things are not mutually exclusive.
So yeah, discuss it with him and tell him what your likes and wants are, and see if y'all can make your individual desires mesh.1