Hey, so just got done with my first year of college and my ego/self-esteem has definitely taken a few hits. I only went out 5 times this year and that's because every time I did go out my friends would be swarmed by boys and I would just awkwardly sit and observe.virtually no guys showed me any interest...I gave 2 guys my number at separate nights after having cool conversations with them but they never called/texted me. My friends have the opposite problem as me and can't keep guys off them...literally 10 at a time it seems. This is very frustrating, I am 20 years old and never been kissed or had a guy show interest in me. My parents said its because im a tall black girl going to a predominatly white university but I dont know...I just feel like a repellent.
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I hate to be the bearer of bad news but it is the fact that your friends are more attractive. Honestly, I think you're attractive and I'm not usually attracted to black females. However, us guys have an "all or nothing" mentality. If there are 7 girls, all guys will go for the most attractive one and only go for the lesser attractive ones if they have an exceedingly cool personality.
If you want to meet a guy, you should strongly consider doing this while alone because you will be the best-looking and most interesting one as well as making yourself easier to approach.1