I met this guy sometime last year through a mutual friend, and we used to talk sporadically. The past couple of months, we escalated into talking more frequently. So naturally, the attraction grew and we admitted to liking each other.
He's mentioned the future and settling down with me many times. At first it just seemed like a joke because he'd allude to it after it would come out that we had something silly and random in common, but he's been asking me probing questions about important things like where I'd want to settle down and how I'd want to raise my kids. And saying things that point towards being in it for the long haul.
This isn't something I'm used to, but then again I'm jaded so I've never really dated a guy and seriously saw myself getting married to him. So I just wanted to hear other people's take on it (especially guys).
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Maybe he is done playing games with women and wants to start a family so he can have kids before he is 40 and live long enough to see his grandchildren...
Some Men do want to get married, and have a marriage before the kids are born.
And some men don't need to wait years to make the choice to be with some1.
Doesn't take years of doing the same things with the same person before you figure out who they are.0