I've been talking on/off with this guy I met an online dating site for about a year now. We'll message/skype then next minute I won't hear from him for a few weeks or months.
I contacted him a month ago to see how he was doing and only received a reply last week. We messaged each other up until Saturday then I didn't hear anything else from him. I got tired of the games so I messaged him saying it was nice to hear from him but I feel like I'm in a game I'll never win. He replied back quickly, "I'm not sure I entirely understand what you mean but if this is what you prefer, I'll respect that. You know where I am. :)" I want to message him back except I don't know what to say and I'm tired of the games.
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If you're actually tired of it then stop it. Just say something like "I like you but this isn't working for me anymore. If, in the future, you decide you'd like to try something for real please let me know!" Then move on...He'll contact you if he ever wants to.0