So there's this chick in my school that i find really pretty and classy even tho we never talked before.
i kinda want to meet her but at the same time i Don't because I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be interested in me, at least physically attracted. She's like 15-16, I don't even know her age, but she seems pretty mature, and I'm 18, its not wrong for me to find her so interesting right? Even tho she's a minor and I'm 18 i think its ok because the age gap is not that big...
so should i make a move on her or what? If we were the same age she would definitely be out of my League, but since I'm a bit older I may have a chance what do you think? Girls like older guys isn't that right?
I have no idea if she has a boyfriend or not, I know nothing about her life, only her name. We are Facebook friends but she never liked any of my stuff, that would be a sign that she was interested right? I mean, if she was interested she would like my stuff but she could also like my stuff if she wasn't interested, but if she never liked anything she is definitely not interested isn't that so? she is not very active on Facebook as far I know tho, she almost never likes stuff, or at least that's what it seems so I don't know.
I want to meet her in hopes of being in a relationship with her, in all honesty, I don't need more female friends. But I don't want to feel bad and ashamed for trying to make a move on her and things don't work out.
deep down I want you guys to tell me I shouldn't do anything because I'll get hurt but even deeper there's this little voice inside of me hoping that you tell me to
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Guessing by the ages, which by the way the gap is not even a factor it's a common age difference, she's a sophomore and you're a senior? You should definitely make a move. All my friends date seniors, and we're like pretty athletic people, etc, but the seniors are also pretty cool. Just cause she doesn't like your stuff on Facebook doesn't mean she doesn't like you. I'm too scared to like any of the guy I like's insta pics. You can just check her Facebook to see if she has a boyfriend. So yeah, go ahead and talk to her and get to know her and flirt it up! You have nothing to lose. If it doesn't go well, you'd be in the same place you are now but you would be able to move on to someone else. If it goes well..then...congrats! The fact that you're older definitely gives you some credibility and probably puts you a little higher up in her books, and if she still doesn't like you well that shows if she's stuck up or not. Go ahead and make your move!1