This guy and I met on Tinder and messaged back and forth a few times. We exchanged numbers and have been texting sparingly for a few days. Yesterday night, jokingly, he asked me to send a selfie to prove I wasn't a dude. Today, I did and he said, "Hey you're kinda cute...I approve." I didn't answer because I thought it was kind of rude. He text me again and said, "Well he'll tonight?" I was confused, so I eventually texted "?" He then asked me to go to this nice bar downtown (about an hour and a half for me). He asks me at 7:30pm the night of? I really want to text him that I don't go on dates with guys that ask last minute and over text. Is being frank that bad? Will it piss him off...(though I don't really care). He's a rich kid...probably used to getting his way.
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I agree with you, especially if it is your first date/meet with this guy. I think it sets the show and gives him a taste of what you will put up with, in this instance, if you say yes and go, you look like you might look a little desperate and like you dont have a life, and then he might think you'll accept last minute dates all the time. I wouldn't do it.
Id say sorry I need more advance notice than that, I dont accept last minute dates.0