Should I be jealous or mad at my boyfriend because he snapchats another girl and she's above me on his bestfriends?

[Anonymous]

So today I checked my boyfriends besties on snapchat. & to my surprise a girl had taken my place and was now #1.. It got me really jealous but I don't want to come off as the over protective girlfriend. 😭what should I do?

[Lilac79]

mention it to him calmly...don't freak out on him like "who is that girl you can't ever talk to any girls besides me ever!!!" but yeah, you have a right to be offended. Everyone knows snapchat can be used for dirty things, and while I'm sure you trust your boyfriend, it doesn't look good to have another girl above you. Just calmly mention it to him, hopefully he'll understand. If not, start snapping tons of guys and see what happens

[Asker]

Im afraid he's always telling me he loves me and stuff. But hell yea im snapchatting all of my guy friends. All of his bestfriends are girls. So why not. & last time he told me how a random girl had snapchatted him asking him if she could suck him up and he told me he had been like no I have a girlfriend and that slut had been like she doesn't have to know!

[Lilac79]

Good! any guys you can move up to more than friends? Cause I feel like your bf is definitely trying to hide something. Overusing the i love you stuff and the fact that he told you about that girl hints at something. I was talking to a guy one time and these other girls started moving above me on his snapchat, and then I had my friend snap him and he told her "you must have a nice body ;)" and then he told me "that's not even flirting" and kept trying to tell me how great i was. So i guess I'm trying to say guys do stuff like that, and you shouldn't stay with them when they do.

[Asker]

Omgg so he's cheating on me wtf 😭😭😭😭😭😭 I really like him

[Lilac79]

Well I wouldn't jump to conclusions, but it's a possibility. I would confront him and maybe figure out who this other girl is he's talking to and try and get some insight on why in the world he is snapping her more than you.

[Lilac79]

Thanks for mh :) how'd it end up?

[rthomas43]

Lol another girl is above my gf on my snapchats bf list.
Just a friend.

Depends on his relationship with said friend.

[knotme]

Sounds like the other girl is the gf

[Asker]

But he's over here talking about baby you know I'll never leave you & ilysm ✋

[rthomas43]

Lol how do you figure?

[rthomas43]

Ilysm?
Is that your name?

[Anonymous]

I have this problem with just a crush :/ even though its just pictures.. it still makes me sad from time
to time thinking about it