For all you extroverts out there, do you think you could be in a relationship with an introvert? I'm dating an extrovert now and i think my quietness bothers him a lot sometimes. Especially when we go to parties and I don't say much. I guess he doesn't get that strangers make me nervous. I can definitely see why he would be annoyed though because he can talk to anyone and I can't do that
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OMG I wish I could like this question b/c I'm an introvert too. I mostly date extroverts. The more you date extroverts, the more you kinda get used to their pet peeves and the more you can educate them on how an introvert should be handled. For me, I don't talk at parties either unless I'm tipsy...lol. I don't advise the liquid courage unless you're in a tight situation. Anyway, I don't talk at parties unless others talk to me. I smile and try to talk about the same stuff they talk about unless I don't know what they're talking about. So I'll ask them what's that? Or that's interesting, I've never heard of that. Or if I really don't know and don't care, I'll just laugh when they laugh and then they like me lol. But I'm ALWAYS close by my guy or I'll find some girls who are just like me, introvert or we have things in common. If I can't find anyone I'm cool with to converse with, then I just eat and enjoy the music and dance. Or play on my phone. THE PHONE IS AN INTROVERTS SECURITY BLANKET AT A PARTY.
My guy complains about me always listening and him talking the most. So I'll talk about something we have in common or something I'm interested in and try to feel if it interests him. I tell him what I like and dislike. I go to places I like, where I feel comfortable sharing my likes with him, like say, the bookstore or one of my hobbies. I have a hobby of couponing and going to thrift stores. I also like Greek, Japanese, and Korean food. I introduce him to new foods that I like and we have a moment. I mean, being an introvert shouldn't come in between you and the guy if they guy genuinely likes you for you and wants to get to know you better. But your responsibility is to find ways where you can be comfortable with each other and understand one another.0