Negatively? As if they probably have a major character flaw.
Positively? Maybe they're just really selective and only date the right person.
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I've been single for about 4 years now. No sex, hook ups and so on. is it because I'm a loser? Maybe but Im not a bad guy at all. I had a bad break up, My future wife changed her mind after I stood by her choice to abort my child for college ( and she didn't go to college ). Then guilt tripped me for years. I felt like a not only lost someone I loved but I also lost my kid. After that I became waay too afraid to move on. Sure im slowing completing college and my own thing but I know I won't be able to connect that closely again. The moment I open up about my insecurities is the moment I will be looked down on as weak and less attractive. Everyone else is so fun and the life of the party and I'm not.0