In winter 2012 I met this guy that I really really liked. We'll call him hippie guy. Only catch was he lived on the other side of the country. When I was there he pursued me and when I left we talked on the phone and texted a lot for a while and he even invited me to come visit him. I was about to buy my plane ticket when he just flat out didn't text me or call me back...needless to say I was pissed off and hurt. It was not pleasant. We never had a chance to get serious, but I still think about him from time to time. Like he's sort of drifting around in the back of my mind. When he heard I was thinking of applying to the college he and my friend go to he texts me telling me he hopes I'll go there. Mixed messages much.
So now I'm casually seeing this guy at home, we can call him fling guy. We work at the same restaurant and were friends for nearly a year before we hooked up. I enjoy spending time with him and think he's a really good person and was totally ready to have a nice little summer fling with him until my friend invited me to go on a trip with her.
It just so happens that her aunt is best friends with hippie guy's mom (crazy crazy coincidence), so we'd be going to their house for this summer solstice festival they throw every year (hippies, yes, and I am into it lol). And in the fall I will be going to college with him.
I know I'm not in a relationship with fling guy but I feel guilty even thinking about visiting hippie guy because fling guy is so sweet, treats me well and would never stop talking to me out of the blue.
So what should I do? I really need your help! I hate making these decisions so much I'll usually just not do anything and let both things fizzle out.
- Hippie guy sound bad news flaky...Vote A
- Don't make waves, you've got a guaranteed summer fling to enjoy.Vote B
- Why not both? They'll never find out and you've made no commitments, you sly dog ;)Vote C
- Go on the trip! If nothing comes of it better than wondering if something would have.Vote D