If you're single and want a relationship, what don't you like hearing people tell you?
A self-described "happily married" coworker recently said "you're not missing much". Well, I've been officially single for almost ten years and have been treated like shit and sometimes feel like damaged goods, so I would like to know what it feels like to be in a happy and fulfilling relationship.
"Don't think about relationships!" Don't think about elephants!
"You're such a great guy/girl! Someone will see that soon!"
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"You'll find someone once you stop looking."
"Just be yourself, and someone will come along and love you for who you are!"
(even though, as another person here said...being myself is most likely the PROBLEM!)
"You're not missing much / You're missing a lot of unnecessary drama"
"Maybe you give off bad signals and aren't acting approachable"
(despite me being as cheery, nice, and smiley as I can to everybody I meet and see, and actively trying to be a approachable as I can)
"Nobody can love you until you love yourself...people can tell!"2