So a little background. I broke the cardinal rule of the guy system. Don't date chicks that you meet in a bar or club. So this young lady and I get along stupid good. We are perfect for each other. She stated to me when we got started that she wanted to take things slow. So we have or I have. She has sped up and than slowed down. Finally she hit me after 2 months of dating that she just got out of a 5 year relationship the night I met her. That she thought I was going to be a come and go guy. That I have surprised her. But she is not going to be ready for anything. What the hell should I do?
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Whatdoes taking things 'slow' mean literally/
is it aboyt how muhc you see eachothr,
the types of things you talk about.
wht you expect?
just never sure what it means and people say it as if everyone automatically gets it.
i dont see how this has to do with meeting her in a bar. everyone gets in and out of relationships. regardless of where they hang out and i dont think there's a guy rule bc bars are full of guys meeting women.
well, not much you can do. she needs time to re adjust. be patient if you like her, move on if you dont?0