he said because he wanted to get to know me better and he really liked me, but i might of mentioned i haven't gone very far with a guy befor in the past so like is this some sexist question or measuring my worth or something?
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I personally think it depends on who asked it, and what the situation was.
Now, I know that that seems immensely cliché, I really do.
If the two of you happened to be in a conversation about just, like you said, getting to know each other, and the conversation casually drifted there, I don't really see an issue with the question. In that case it's simple curiousity and it wasn't out of nowhere.
Now, if it was more "out-of-the-blue", then that might be something of an issue. Again, it depends on who said it. If the person has had a lot of girlfriends before, it is at least plausible that they want to compare you to someone else. In that case, that person is a jerk. If they have had NOONE before, ever, they might be comparing themselves to your other boyfriends, should you have had any.
As far as advice goes, it's really just look at who asked you. Maybe the situation is something similar to what RPGamer said, maybe the person is just a jerk. I cannot say. All I know is that, unless you are completely sure something is wrong, you shouldn't worry about it. It might have been a slip of the tongue. You never know for sure. What would we give to be omniscient, right?1