So sorry for long story but be patient!
I met a guy on tinder app dating, and i didn't expect it to go well, we went on a date and it was amazing, we had so much fun, he was so easy to be with and it felt so natural. Day after again we went on date, i met his work friends cause he took me to a dinner with them, and than i spendt the night with him at his hotell, no sex, he was respectful about that.
I mention hotell room because he doesn't live in my town, when i met him on tinder he was only in my town for work but i stil went on a date thinking its probably going to be lame.
Weekend after that he was back again for work and we met again, this time he was at my place and spendt the night with me at my place when he could have chosen his hotell room, and he came back the day after.
So far 4 great dates, and i havnt datet a guy this amazing, im 22 and I've never had a boyfriend.
Last date was on Valentine's day, he ditched his work party to be with me and again spendt the night at my place instead of his own hotel room. He told me that night that he likes me and how it sucks that we dont get to spend a lot of time together.
After that amazing date he began to pull away. I noticed he didn't contact me so often and didn't meet me when he was in town, its been 2 times since where he has been in town, so i finally dared to ask him if he still was interested.
He said that he isn't looking for anything serious now because he simply doesn't have the time for it, he works and goes to college, writing his bachelor now and he has applied for his master in another country and in my town, havnt heard anything about him getting accepted in another country, he was going to know about it in march..
But he said he wants to remain friends because he thinks im a cool gir...i mean cool girl? what does that mean.. he said happy birthday to me on my birthday and from time to time "likes" my pictures on facebook, but we havnt spoken since that last talk.
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Sorry to say, It doesn't sound good. In my experience, I have told a few women I would prefer to be friends, or I was too busy for anything serious only after I got what I wanted. Guys can be awesome, the best ever, if they haven't gotten "it" yet. Hopefully I am wrong, but to me, seems he got what he wanted and moved on, may be you should too. Sorry.0
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