I going to get to the point: there was this guy I was dating and things were going well. We got along, made each other laugh, and had common interests. On the fourth date we had a movie date at his place, I know movies can be code for sex, so yes I brought condoms.
Anyways, we never kissed before, but he kissed me, and we made out. Before this we cuddled/held hands/etc. I wasn't sure if he was interested or not because he waited a while to kiss me. I was nervous because I had less experience than him, so I didn't want to mess up, which is stupid.
Later on he was ready for sex and I wasn't; he wasn't mad or anything, but I feel like I messed up. I think I would have been more comfortable if we would have made out more instead of everything escalating on one day. I just wasn't ready yet, and because of bad experiences in the past, I didn't want to rush things. So a month or so later he wanted to be just friends and his feelings changed. Btw, I'm agnostic and religious reasons were not the reason for my decision.
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You should not have sex if you are uncomfortable about it, if he forces that he is bad news.1