I've been seeing a guy for around 2 months. Within the first two weeks of seeing each other. I found out he had a gf after she contacted me. He said they recently broke up and she was upset. I didn't believe it tho. Out of my stupidity I still went to go on to see him I found her social media site and it looked they finally had broken up. Last night I went to his house to find pictures of them all over the house & those pictures were never there before I asked him about it and he said " I put them back up because she came over to get something and I didn't want drama " which makes no sense if they weren't together anymore? I really like this guy and I'm so hurt what should I do?
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I have had that problem before. Some people just can't get over their exes. That is not a reflection on "you" or your desirability to men. That is entirely that man's problem. He's a buffoon who can't let go of his ex. Since you're under 35, enjoy the male-to-female ratio that's in your favor. In the years before you turn 35, men outnumber women by a ratio of 106 to 100. So there aren't enough women to go around for every guy. It's not until the age of 35, that enough men have died off to the point where women outnumber them, but if we have no major wars, and better medical technology in the future, then the male-to-female ratio might "still" be in your favor when you're 35. Don't let "one of the many excess men" have power over you when the numbers are in your favor.1