I wanted to send a girl a message over facebook. I couldn't do it. This girl so gorgeous and I want to get to know her, but I am afraid she will just reject me like every other girl! I keep telling myself to stop it, no girl ever shows interest, and then I always push myself to disappointment over and over again. I know her cousin, her cousin is my best friends girl, or I don't know maybe I should say ex-best friend. We are no longer friends I should say because one of the reasons is he cheats on his girl with different women every week. I really wanted to send her a message. I couldn't think of anything to say. I figured I just say that I wanted to break the ice and say hi but I have been in a lost of words. I don't know what to think, what should I do? Should I just accept the fact that no girl will ever want to get to know me or should I man up and face another rejection? She is one of my Facebook friends
I wanted to send a girl a message?
What Girls Said 7
If you have met this girl and talked to her a little in real life, I would think it would be okay for you to FB message her. Don't move to fast! Take it slow! That works better. And, eventually, you will find the right girl. All the breakups are leading you to her. For all you know this could not lead to another breakup! Just say hi and ask her how her day was etc. Be brave! I think it will be fine! If she isn't really interesting in started a relationship, don't freak out and get angry. Just accept it, and maybe she will eventually come back to you.0
If you initiate a conversation already thinking you are going to get rejected then you will likely get rejected. Girls like confidence and they will be able to sense your insecurities by the way you talk to them and the overall way you carry yourself. You have to improve your attitude and think more highly of yourself. Just message her with the intent of getting to know her and letting her get to know you.0
It's all about your confidence. Don't be scared just go message her. Just do it.0
If you are afraid to say anything try poking her on Facebook or something to see if she pokes back!1
What Guys Said 3
Ok, you have a really bad attitude towards yourself. You seem really negative and gloomy about all this. If you are showing even a hint of this when you try to talk to girls, this is why they may be not interested. Message her on fb and just make small talk to start with. Say hello. Asker how her day was... Talk about recent movies, or shows. Read her profile and see what she likes and bring that up. It isn't as hard as you are making it.1
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Man up, say hi and ask what has she been up to today, think about how what kind of questions you would like to receive in a casual conversation. It's clearly easier over facebook, then maybe later up meet her IRL for a coffee or fast-food or something like that, the important thing is just to talk to her, don't apologize for talking too much, ask questions and leave her alone once in a while (chatting every night isn't a good choise)1
Send her a message. If you are self confident about it, the message will sound better.0
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