i set up a little ice cream movie date with a girl on Monday and its Thursday. Monday she told me "maybe I don't know if im working" and i said ok cool. i don't think she's flaking cause she told me she couldn't wait to go get some and see me soon. i was thinking if it would be ok to text her a little reminder. cause i heard If you schedule a date more than a few days in advance, send her a reminder. Sometimes girls forget or get cold feet. i was thinking of sending something kinda funny and flirty like "did you pick out a cute outfit for Friday night yet?” does this seem like a good idea i haven't heard from her yet or should i just wait for her to get back at me or is she waiting to see if i actually care enough to remind her? i know her telling me she couldn't wait to see me and get some sounds like a yes but when i ask her out why would she say maybe and its been like 3 days and were suppose to go out tomorrow i honestly don't know what to do besides wait. my friends were thinking if she hits me up on Friday i tell her i can't go and that i didn't think she didn't wanna go again cause i have plans
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Yes, you need to remind her. I wouldn't word it like you did, you are insinuating that she accepted. That may give off the wrong signals to her if she still is undecided that you are pushy. I would say something like, "I am really looking forward to seeing you Friday, are still interested in going with me?"