It's driving me crazy. This guy knows I recently started a relationship with my best friend and that we are both in love but yet he feels it's ok to text me with "hey sexy lady :P". He has hit on me plenty of times while him and his gf were together - he told me how he fantasizes about me and asked me why I'm so sexy. I was like, what the hell kind of stupid question is that, seriously? I made it as awkward as possible. How do I say something before he does it again and I snap? Cause I would hate for my man to come across this shit on my phone or fb one day but mainly, it's very disrespectful. I don't even find this other dude attractive whatsoever, gross. Been there done that YEARS ago. I'm thinking it's time to call this friendship a wrap even if we've been friends 12 years or some shit.
How to stop guy friend from hitting on me every time we talk?
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Don't let that ruin your friendship. That'd be sad. I think, every time he hits on you make sure he gets the message. Even if you have to be straight up & completely rude, or you could go about it the mature way which is saying something like "Just stop, dude. I have a boyfriend & besides that I would never be interested in you."0
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