So I met this girl; we've been on two dates and I've been paying for everything.
The first date I only bought her a couple of beers and the second date we shared the meal because neither one of us likes big portions - also got her a margarita.
So really, I've only spent about $25 bucks on her which isn't a big deal. I'm just wondering if it's a negative sign that she didn't even offer to kick in a few bucks?
I get that I'm taking charge here. I probably wouldn't accept her money but it just seems odd to me that a girl in this generation wouldn't even offer to help.
So is this a genuine thing on her part? Maybe she is just traditional or is she selfish?
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I don't think that's right on her part. She should offer, and If you were taking her out, you should pay. She should always offer and not expect. This is indicative of high maintenance. The first time maybe she was nervous. But if it happens again, I would think about if you're okay with a high maintenance girl.0