So there's this girl who I like, but she is shy around me, she says hello, gives me a big grin and often has the reddish cheeks, but we haven't really had a decent conversation.
How would I go about initiating a conversation to break the ice, to make her feel more comfortable around me? I want to know a bit about her before I ask her out.
Obviously if I ask her a series of questions right off the bat it's going to sound weird.
I'm just stumped, usually I meet new people, women and men and conversation comes naturally, I've never had to try and manufacture a conversation, so I have no idea where to start.
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tell her compliments like hey i like your perfume or outfit or you have such pretty eyes...humans always feel good about themselves when they get a compliment...may be then she will be more open to u...or u can ask for her number and text her, people find it easier to text rather than talk in person...u can keep conversation going that way...
but from the sounds of it, it sounds like she does like u a lot
one trick to always remember is that when a person is super shy around u and awkward it means they have intense feelings for u and u pretty much intimidate them...so in a way, its a good thing u intimidate her? thats why she's so uncomfortable...and with others, people are so comfortable with each other, talk easily about anything, cause theyre just friend-zoned...just friends rather...and we dont care what they think or how we are with them cause they dont matter...but with the person we like, we get really blush and shy around.2