I'm just wondering since growing up I didn't have any success with girls. Seems like most kids were dating in high school, some as early as middle school, but I'm nearly through college and I still haven't ever had a girlfriend or dated or anything. What sucks too is that my standards are also pretty high which doesn't seem to benefit me much either lol. Beggars can't be choosers right?
Anyway, I really hope my luck will change soon. Once I take my first job out of school, I'll be around all new people and everything, making good money, I would imagine it would get better at least. Hopefully. I feel like a different person than I did back in high school.
I wasn't really in with anyone back in grade school. All the kids I knew, they all hung out and partied together and a lot of girls and guys would date because they were already close and stuff. I wasn't lucky enough to have that kind of thing going for me I guess. Idk.
It just seems like I'm going through life all alone, by myself, when a lot of my peers all had tons of meaningful connections and relationships with each other. I often wonder why that is. Why not me too? I just don't know.
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I don't know how old you are, but it's never too late to change your "luck" with women.
I didn't have any intimate experience at all until I was 22, which is quite late by today's standards. And now four relationships and nine years later, I feel quite confident when it comes to women.
Just keep working at it, and you'll get there. It really does ALL start with feeling good about yourself first. The rest will follow.0
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