So there is a girl who I have been seeing for a week, and she said that day (in response to a joke) that a guy should always provide more.
What does she mean? I thought these days this "Providing" concept is supposed to be equally balanced, or if the girl truly cares for me she should not say this in first place... ? right?
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>She likes to get mad sometimes at me and wants to scream and yell at me
>She is lazy and doesn't want to cook or clean the house
>She doesn't want to even TOUCH each other before marriage (only holding hands)
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Well, as a girl whos been the one to provide more, I dont think she's wrong.
my older relaive once said to me that a man should always like a woman a bit more than she likes him, and a woman chasing barely ever works for the long run..as they lose respect for her.
Also, i hate to genralize but sense you guys generalize women who say this as a gold digger, Lets just say that some males dont like when a female can provide more and it throws things off bad usually. Like the guy feel inadequate.
A woman can provide more but how rarely does this work out with out the man feeling emasculated?
Equal I dont think works, like a girl buying the dinner and wooing the guy? what is she getting out of it and when you do it what do you get out of it? sorry i feel like men woo and stuff to convince the girl to choose them and they get to have the *goodies*
I am not a goldigger but id like my husband to be doing a little better than me, especially sense men are actually PAID higher and not objectfied in this rape culture half as much as women.1
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