Last weekend I went out to a very close friends house for a graduation party. This guy, Josh, and I hit it off. I'm a little shy when it comes to the opposite sex and attraction. Not to mention he's 36 and I'm 20. As the weekend went on everyone egged it on and encouraged us to get to know each other. Well the weekend ended and I went back home. I came back this weekend to see my Goddaughter and visit, secretly hoping to see him as well. Unfortunately it was brief. Yesterday this guy my age started talking to me and he really likes me. He's a nice guy and very cute, but I have no feelings. My mind is fixated on this grown man. I can't shake him. Any advice or opinions?
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It's not common (you're part of a minority), but it's not weird.It might look more normal if you were 25 and him 36.
You can't choose when you were born, and sometimes you just get along with people and age doesn't matter.If he's in good condition, he'll do anything as well or better than men your age.It's understandable that you like him, and I don't think it's weird.
When you're an adult, condition and ability matters more than age.If anything, he's taking the bigger risk here.If it makes you happy, go for it.
I've had some good times with women 20 years younger, give or take a few.Age wasn't a problem, if they had their head together.2