I've been getting to know this man who's older than I am, divorced, single. You think someone in their 40's is an adult - maybe not.
Things were really nice - we had been talking more and more - he stayed on the phone with me off and on pretty much all day yesterday.
This morning he starts pushing me to send him a pic that would have been revealing, if you get my point.
I don't know him well enough for that, and while I'm flattered and happy that he feels that way about me, rushing it makes me nervous and I can't be sending *that* to someone I don't so well.
Now he's saying he feel embarrassed and will talk to me later.
My take is men only try to rush that sort of thing when they're only out for one thing... so I just said, OK, whatever.
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It's not when they are only after one thing, but it is the sort of thing you do when the relationship has reached a certain point. He obviously thought you were both further along than you actually are.
The female equivalent, would be using the l-word too soon, and then feeling embarrassed about it.1