Alright, I'd like to share some background about the girl first. About two weeks ago, I went out with my best pal and one of my female friends. It was one of those loose outings where you just join them to catch up. My female friend was with another friend of hers. Since the moment I saw her, she just pushed all my buttons immediately; even more so when my friend told me the details. Not only is she extremely cute and quiet, but we also have a near-perfect match in personalities. The best thing in the world is that, when I told my friend I found her cute, she revealed to me that she was interested, too (so include the 'love at first sight' in the perfect match thing). The only problem is that she is having her high school finals (she is 18, I'm 22) and since she is aiming for Med School, she doesn't go out at all, so I won't see her until next week. Unfortunately, I don't have her number and I've erased my Facebook account long ago -she did ask my friend if I had one- so we have no way of communication until then. The good news is that my friend, who acts like some kind of information broker, tells me that she is worried that I will get bored waiting, so yeah, the interest is still there.
Anyway, I have to prepare for that date when it finally comes. From recent experience, I find the usual "let's go out for a coffee" date boring and hard to maneuver within. Fortunately, my uncle has recently opened a bar with darts, to which I'm becoming addicted to, and I thought it would be a fun date if we had our coffee there. But like her, I'm a worried too that she might be turned off. So what do you think? Is it a good first date idea?
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Darts is a game you can't really socialise in with a new person as it requires turn taking and other people wanting a round and if she's bad at it she may get bored and not make the effort on her go's while waiting bore as you focus on your go's. She's not a dude who's gonna compete and banter with you if she's quiet unless she likes darts. Ask your informant what the girl really likes and build a casual date around that or go for a coffee near a cinema and take her to see a film after a quick chat.0