Lemme start out by saying I love my girlfriend a ton. She is very important to me and and I care about her and what she has to say and I never ignore her or anything like that.
We're in college together and because it's summer we're about an hour away from eachother so we only see eachother maybe once a week now, she's developed this habit of calling me every late night and talking on the phone for several hours. The thing is... its more like silence on the phone for 3 hours because I don't know what the heck to even talk about anymore and its just like... I dunno.
I stay up very late doing stupid things, Reddit and video games mostly or applying for jobs all around my area and personally I like this. I don't get very much alone time during the day so I do most of it at night.
I wouldn't mind talking to her now and then at night but at this point neither of us know what to talk about and we're just on the phone in silence.
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Dude just tell her XD I wouldn't want to talk to someone every night either. "Me" time is always important.
Just tell her you have stuff you'd like to do and that you'll talk to her some other night. Better yet, you guys should make a schedule since you rarely see each other (honestly once a week is more than enough for me but I'm not sure about her). a lot of people thinks making a schedule turns the relationship into a chore or a job and that nothing is exciting anymore, but I think it's convenient. I'm sure she'll understand. Just choose your words wisely if she's one of those girls who like to over analyze things.0