Is it hard to find " good" loyal woman now a days?

[Anonymous]

Do guys also think its hard to find loyal partners now a days?
if so why?

[ManThatKnewTooMuch]

Fuck yes it's hard.

It's the Me-First attitude that so many people have nowadays. It's about personal happiness, personal dreams. Individuality is celebrated. In terms of relationships that's really a bad thing. What ends up happening is that you have two people who refuse to work things out because they each want their own way... and usually it's the chick that's the guilty party. Don't lie, if you're a girl you know that you over analyze and become resentful over things way more than your boyfriend.

That's basically the crux of the problem. Me-First also means that people are obsessed with their personal happiness.; more people are willing to drop relationships if they aren't happy. It's silly really. Instead of working things out or just accepting the other person and their differences they just split, in pursuit of the perfect dream/person/happiness. It's the lie that our society has sold to us.

[Anonymous]

Yes. Most people aren't loyal. Even if they don't cheat most won't put much work into the relationship, and will cause misery to the other person. I don't think it matters what the person's gender is. Most people are very selfish, and want one set of rules for themselves, and another set of rules for everyone else.

Women today aren't worse than women in the past. The only reason women use to have a better reputation than men was because women were more dependent on men for survival, and couldn't risk cheating as often. As soon as person doesn't need someone else anymore, their true colors come out.

[p0rtis26]

Love the last statement soo true soo true

[Belleza2]

nowadays people just... are all about security unfortunately I am one of the romantic types so it is so hard out there, sometimes I wish something could point him to me but unfortunately this goes both ways...can I find a decent man - I hope so but for now I will stick to being single

[xxjetaime]

Yes, definitely because I know people that are married and they cheat on their wives. It's pretty sad, but it's hard to find someone that you can trust.

[princess9089]

yes yes yes... sure is.. but why do men always mess up when they find a good gurl?

[p0rtis26]

I would say yes, but it is also true with the other sex as well. Women are emotional creatures and at this college age many people change. Women love attention and insecure woman are not going to be content with one man. Also this idea of friends with benefits only leads to this floozy dating system. The American dating system is all about what can I get and about fulfilling my pleasures. There are of course exceptions. I am a loyal dog, but many people believe until you are married you do not hold any allegiances or responsibility.

[sirspauldo]

I just responded to 3 posts on here about girls wanting justification for wanting to cheat on their boyfriends, so yes some are unloyal.

Although, I think its all about what kind of people you hang out with, all the people I hang out with I can honestly say I could trust with anything.

Its all about where you're looking.

[BrianG123]

I think the biggest issue is online dating. Women have so many outlets to meet people, so even if they meet a great guy, there are a hundred other options out there. So if things aren't perfect on the outset, the girl can move on to the next guy. Disposable dates, if you will.

It's true for guys too, but as the aggressors, it takes more work.

[UnknownXYZ]

Not really. The ones that are exposed to us are the outgoing and forefront types, it creates a false idea that these girls are disloyal and would look elsewhere for better if you were in a relationship with them.

[icantwait]

Loyal seems nearly impossible to find. I think that goes for both sides. Its out there, just hard to find. Probably comes down to people being mismatched more then anything else but who knows

[Anonymous]

Lets assume you're in the US. If you are this depends upon your social standing. This seems to be what women value the most, money comes up a lot but although that gets your married it doesn't keep her there.

Women are fickle, and to answer your question simply: Yes. Most women today are not loyal simply because they usually have no reason to be.

[Thatguy321]

I have a better chance of finding a diamond in my yard.. I soo many of my girl-friends who have cheated.. Same with guys but i have found honestly more woman that who've cheated than men

[front2back]

Not really. They're actually everywhere.

The hard thing is finding "good" loyal women who WANT you back. Everyone seems to be aiming for a different target even though they're in the same range.

[NoblesseOblige]

lol no. Not only is it easy, even if she does cheat, you can find a new one in no time.

[SaltandVinegar]

There are very few loyal people left these days, men or women :/

[Anonymous]

It's not. If guys think this they need to reevaluate what women they are dating.

[BertMacklinFBI]

it kinda goes both ways with experience.

[Torrie]

I think it's hard. I don't know many loyal people.

[jacquesvol]

I think it isn't that difficult.

[kangaru2]

Yes same for guys